Derbylicious
New member
Okay,,,,, alarm bells here! I would not be okay with you being with anyone else just yet. I don't care what hubby and the boyfriend want. I do not want that! end of story. I will have a really hard time with that and it would lead to a lot of questions as to whether I would be okay staying in our relationship. That is too fast for me now and I have no problem pointing out that I need to be respected as the one needing the most support and therefore the one that the pace should be set at..... I'm not even sure that I can even ask for that yet... yup, now I'm nervous. It seems this is all set up to revolve around the three of them without consideration for anyone else... hmmmmm....
Interesting how this all trickles down.
Please don't think that it's my intention now or in the foreseeable future to become involved romantically or sexually with her. It's just one of the many weird thoughts in my head and I was rambling. I would never consider getting involved with anyone else unless everyone who I was involved with was in a place where it was comfortable with them. We are still too new and finding our way for me to add anyone else into the mix.
You can ask whatever you need from me. If it's not something I can give we will talk about it...that's how relationships work. I care way too much about you to do anything deliberately that would hurt you. So please ask for anything that you need from me. One day I'll tell you about all the crazy stuff that was going on in my head when I started dating you!
-Derby