All of this self analysis, pain, growth, awareness, all of this love, laughter, joy and new friends made and the thought comes to me that maybe this isn't about Ts journey into poly, but my own.
Sunny day, think I'll go for a walk.
Freetime
All of this self analysis, pain, growth, awareness, all of this love, laughter, joy and new friends made and the thought comes to me that maybe this isn't about Ts journey into poly, but my own.
I have given no thought to exploring polyamory other than as a monogamous partner involved in a poly relationship.
The details will remain with me as is fitting, but I now find myself with a wife and two girlfriends who all know each other. I should probably be somewhat concerned, but truthfully I'm just going to enjoy the company and be open to what this may look like from here on in.
The details will remain with me as is fitting, but I now find myself with a wife and two girlfriends who all know each other. I should probably be somewhat concerned, but truthfully I'm just going to enjoy the company and be open to what this may look like from here on in.
Duck to water ?
Your GFs are lovely women and I am happy they are in our lives.
Oh, now you got me all curious!!!
This sounds like a good plan to me .
I'm convinced that good things can come our way just because we open our mind to new options. Enjoy!
@#$%^&*, so years of self-analysis and soul searching and online prowling...and apparently the secret to finding a poly gf...is to sit back and be mono!!! WTF dude...you couldn't have told me this in 2007!?
On a more serious note...
You my dear were the one who challenged my beliefs and my stance in this wee adventure, so you tell me. See you Wednesday.
Damn, I should have rearranged my schedule when you were here and got together with ya - who knows what might've happened??!!
My darling T, how naive of me to think that you wouldn't be bothered by my time with another. How could you not? Because you were first to the experience I assumed you prepared. How foolish of me. I'm sorry baby.
I love you T, I,m not going anywhere sweetheart, I'm right here.
Red pepper reminded me months ago that my role in this, in part, is to give comfort regardless of cause or reason. and although I wasn't sure of that then, I am certain of it now.
Radical honesty and Radical acceptance. Interesting.
Well shit fire and save matches, fuck a duck and see what hatches!
Freetime, prepare to meet a metric fucktonne of NRE. Be careful!
Yes be careful. Its sometimes smoke and mirrors until someone gets hurt and then all is revealed...
wishing you the best however.
Remember to go slow and think one step ahead if you can..
Ya whatever, NRE here we come....
lalala not listening, I know *tease*
good luck
I made this same mistaken assumption... we're working through it and I'm sure you and T can too.