Hi,
I have been in love with a woman for the last two years. We are in an open relationship tat I would describe as polysexual and not polyamorous. She has requested that I dont have sex with any other women, but is okay with me being with guys. She encouraged the bisexual side in me slowly that I didnt know was there (I had never been with a man prior to being in this relationship with her). Before I would have described myself as heterosexual heteroromantic, now after two years I'd say I'm bisexual and heteroromantic. She is straight meaning heterosexual and heteroromantic, and is a self described slut. Both of us now have no strings attached sex with guys, separately. We dont engage in swinging if that means partner swapping, especially because she wouldn't want me with girls.
We are still maturing and growing our views and in our early twenties. A lot of firsts keep happening for us. This week she had her first threesome (with two other guys, not me). I was insecure about openning up to allow her to kiss guys before, but she did that this week too (she would usually just fuck them).
I'm going to propose soon and if we get married I'd be more willing to open up the relationship to allow her to date with guys a bit, as long as I'm still the primary. I always try to take the leading steps as far as overcoming my insecurities and allowing her a little more freedom each time. However, I think I'd also be perfectly happy with a mono-amourous polysexual relationship, and she agrees with that too. We are very content at this stage and dont feel a need to introduce something new or rush things.
Also, the other good news is that I am intensely turned on by her having lots of sex, and she is intensely turned on by two guys fucking as well (probably why she pushed me so much to do it).
I have been in love with a woman for the last two years. We are in an open relationship tat I would describe as polysexual and not polyamorous. She has requested that I dont have sex with any other women, but is okay with me being with guys. She encouraged the bisexual side in me slowly that I didnt know was there (I had never been with a man prior to being in this relationship with her). Before I would have described myself as heterosexual heteroromantic, now after two years I'd say I'm bisexual and heteroromantic. She is straight meaning heterosexual and heteroromantic, and is a self described slut. Both of us now have no strings attached sex with guys, separately. We dont engage in swinging if that means partner swapping, especially because she wouldn't want me with girls.
We are still maturing and growing our views and in our early twenties. A lot of firsts keep happening for us. This week she had her first threesome (with two other guys, not me). I was insecure about openning up to allow her to kiss guys before, but she did that this week too (she would usually just fuck them).
I'm going to propose soon and if we get married I'd be more willing to open up the relationship to allow her to date with guys a bit, as long as I'm still the primary. I always try to take the leading steps as far as overcoming my insecurities and allowing her a little more freedom each time. However, I think I'd also be perfectly happy with a mono-amourous polysexual relationship, and she agrees with that too. We are very content at this stage and dont feel a need to introduce something new or rush things.
Also, the other good news is that I am intensely turned on by her having lots of sex, and she is intensely turned on by two guys fucking as well (probably why she pushed me so much to do it).