I am the new parent of twins with my partner of 5+ years and I have a gf of 11 months.
I am struggling with time management right now. Because of the twins my partner and I are feeding every 3-4 hours and each feeding takes about 1 hour.
I want to be there for the twins and my partner but I also want to be there for my gf. My gf is quite young and I feel she just doesn't understand or doesn't want to understand what I'm going through.
During the pregnancy my partner was admitted to the hospital for almost 3 months and during that time I would visit the hospital and actually stay with my gf. Usually I would see my gf 2 -3 times a week.
I really do want to see my gf. I crave the closeness we have and I am in love with her and her me.
My gf gets upset that I want to help with feeding and give her less time.
What does one do??
I am struggling with time management right now. Because of the twins my partner and I are feeding every 3-4 hours and each feeding takes about 1 hour.
I want to be there for the twins and my partner but I also want to be there for my gf. My gf is quite young and I feel she just doesn't understand or doesn't want to understand what I'm going through.
During the pregnancy my partner was admitted to the hospital for almost 3 months and during that time I would visit the hospital and actually stay with my gf. Usually I would see my gf 2 -3 times a week.
I really do want to see my gf. I crave the closeness we have and I am in love with her and her me.
My gf gets upset that I want to help with feeding and give her less time.
What does one do??