Derbylicious
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The cake was lovely. Thank you so much. You have no idea how much it meant to me. xoxoxo
So glad you know you are lovedThe cake was lovely. Thank you so much. You have no idea how much it meant to me. xoxoxo
Good question. I don't know how you could think it was disrespectful, though. I'm happy to do my best to answer any questions.I don't know how to ask this respectfully. It's just how you describe how different your loves are from each other, and how you're versatile enough to fit comfortably in with all of them. Do you feel this is something you have always had in you, or were you originally more symbiotic/co-dependent with your ex and/or PN? Do you feel the need for variety, or is it something you have just had to develop when you've fallen for such different people?
I don't know how you could think it was disrespectful, though.
I have always needed companionship and deep friendships and can't seem to manage that without it becoming a relationship of partnership. Variety is part of that I guess.
I'm not sure I am getting what you mean here or how it pertains to what I said. After reading the thread you started I'm even more confused.... could you say more? Maybe I will write this on your thread... http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?p=105729#post105729This really struck true for me. I was talking about this with someone I am developing a close friendship with. I think it's the reason I don't have a lot of female friends, too. I inevitably end of falling for them in some way or another, and that's not cool for them. With men, the chances are much better they would be interested.
It's something I'm struggling with, really. Why must everything move toward a partnership? Is this some sort of problem I have, not being able to draw those neat little boxes for friends vs loves and actually keep everyone in their boxes?
Because for my true friends, I've already shared so much of myself, and they theirselves, how can i not want to see where that could go with physical intimacy? It's just one more way to bring you closer together, to show your love. Is that a bad thing?
Maybe I will start a new thread on this ...
From one recent 40 year old Libra to another, happy birthday Mono! I'm sure your day wil be awesome!
why yes! Of course! Actually that makes a lot of sense I need earth indeed.Libra is an Air sign You're in need of some dirt!
Birthdays are so much fun! Was there cake?