trishandbubs
New member
Hi
Looking for a bit of reassurance that I am normal lol. After much discussion with my husband about fantasies etc we arranged for him to sleep with a friend of his (they have been close as work colleagues and I always would call her his girlfriend) they had a great time and from this myself and this woman have become really close. They first slept together a couple of weeks ago and since then i have also joined them which all three of us agree is great.
Now this was only meant to be a non emotional experience but all three agree that we would like to continue this relationship and see how it develops as we have all got extremely strong feelings straight away for each other. She respects that I am the wife and everything has to be open and honest, and I give them both freedom to be on there own if they want. Now although we have all shared a bed a few times myself and this woman are not bi and only really kiss and cuddle but I really enjoy her company.
This all seems so natural but it has happened so fast. I have children and my husband isnt comfortable in them knowing about this relationship. Can this work where we are more interlinked than having separate relationships? We haven't set any rules as everything just seems to be working really well, what sort of rules do you set anyway as never had to consider anything like this. We really didnt think it would turn out to be a relationship but all wanting to make this work.
Thanks for letting me waffle
Looking for a bit of reassurance that I am normal lol. After much discussion with my husband about fantasies etc we arranged for him to sleep with a friend of his (they have been close as work colleagues and I always would call her his girlfriend) they had a great time and from this myself and this woman have become really close. They first slept together a couple of weeks ago and since then i have also joined them which all three of us agree is great.
Now this was only meant to be a non emotional experience but all three agree that we would like to continue this relationship and see how it develops as we have all got extremely strong feelings straight away for each other. She respects that I am the wife and everything has to be open and honest, and I give them both freedom to be on there own if they want. Now although we have all shared a bed a few times myself and this woman are not bi and only really kiss and cuddle but I really enjoy her company.
This all seems so natural but it has happened so fast. I have children and my husband isnt comfortable in them knowing about this relationship. Can this work where we are more interlinked than having separate relationships? We haven't set any rules as everything just seems to be working really well, what sort of rules do you set anyway as never had to consider anything like this. We really didnt think it would turn out to be a relationship but all wanting to make this work.
Thanks for letting me waffle