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Old 06-23-2012, 02:51 PM
polypenguin polypenguin is offline
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Me too, i know i post here mainly when i'm upset or feeling a rant comming on, but i came to a realization yesterday after the girlfriend told me she was looking for another woman (long story, not bad though). Previously i would have been upset because of the inequality in our relationship, that "when is it my turn?" But it didn't really effect me, which is great! That is exactly what i've been hoping for in agreeing to be unequal for a while... that is, (for lack of a better term) zen. the radical acceptance which our society doesn't give people. Zen, at peace, the gentle knowing that everything may not be ok, but at the same time, it is in your heart.
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