Thread: Back and Forth
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Old 11-28-2011, 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted by hyperskeptic View Post
Is it the closing off of the possibility of him dating that will make you feel safer, or being with other people who also care about you? Or is it both?
Out of sight, out of mind. It would be nice to not have to think about this topic for a few days.

Also, be aware of how your partner is feeling: if he's hesitant, confused and fearful, he needs your support, attention, and advice. It's a strange role to be in, I know, advising your partner on how to proceed with a possible new relationship, but it can have the paradoxical effect of strengthening your partnership.
This is where I want us to get. I want us to be able to comfort and advise each other. I want to be happy when he is happy. I want to share his happiness. I would love for him to fall in love with someone who I can too admire and adore.

Maybe I should meet her.
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