My husband and I recently decided to open our marriage. We have an amazing relationship (together 16 years and we have been with other people together)for which nothing can come between but we also have very big hearts and want to share our ability to love with others. I have done plenty of reading on the polyamory lifestyle but it is hard to truly grasp the honest ups and downs of such a lifestyle change. Heck, I don't even know how you meet people who are like minded. How do you break into this "group".