jones
New member
Hi everyone, after a very painful and messy break up I need to work on some self healing.
my problems:
I feel it my fault, from what I hear from G, J is perfect in everyway, he cares about her more than me:
speaking to my bf, he says it not my fault, its them so the points I want to work on are:
changing my mind set on it being my fault to not being my fault.
being more positive.
I feel I have been coping a little bit more with what g and j are doing, its hard with him still living here, plus they are having sex now and not being careful with protection. but how do I get to the point where it doesn't bother me at all?
does anyone have any help for me?
my problems:
I feel it my fault, from what I hear from G, J is perfect in everyway, he cares about her more than me:
speaking to my bf, he says it not my fault, its them so the points I want to work on are:
changing my mind set on it being my fault to not being my fault.
being more positive.
I feel I have been coping a little bit more with what g and j are doing, its hard with him still living here, plus they are having sex now and not being careful with protection. but how do I get to the point where it doesn't bother me at all?
does anyone have any help for me?