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Old 04-22-2013, 12:47 AM
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How many of you have been or are swingers?

I have never been nor will I ever be a swinger.

Were you swingers before you became poly?

No, My husband is the one who got it through my thick head that I was poly. Before him I had the habit of flitting from one relationship to another looking for that elusive perfect man.

Or did you try swinging after you discovered you were a poly person?


If you're in a successful poly relationship, do you still have desires to have casual, no strings sex with others?

Never I found the man who has the traits I was searching for. Funny thing is he and my husband have some of the same qualities. But yet they are very different.

Or do you keep yourself now to only your poly partners?

I am faithful to my husband and my boyfriend. I have no urge to pursue anyone else.
40 something straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 50/50 split of time between my two husbands.
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