Hello everyone.
Let me introduce myself.
I am 28, married (happily) to a wonderful man of 29. For some time, we have spoken about opening up our marriage, and have finally embarked upon trying to find partners.
It's not gone too well.
We both signed up for OK Cupid. It's worked brillantly for me, there are tons of men that want to meet me (no women ever reply, though, quite annoyingly). However, just as no women have responded to me, none have responded to my husband, either. I simply cannot understand. I think my husband is attractive (obviously) and frankly, cmpared to some of the offerings on there, I really think he's in the top quota, but then I am biased, of course.
Has anyone else found this, that men will reply but women do not? Does anyone have any advice for finding partners? Are there some better websites for polyamorous people? We were hoping to try a free site untill we get the hang of things, but it looks like we will have to pay, but I'll be super annoyed if we use a pay site and STILL there are no women prepared to be polite.
We are in the UK, northern, South Yorkshire BTW.
I apologise if this is in the wrong section.
Thankyou.
Let me introduce myself.
I am 28, married (happily) to a wonderful man of 29. For some time, we have spoken about opening up our marriage, and have finally embarked upon trying to find partners.
It's not gone too well.
We both signed up for OK Cupid. It's worked brillantly for me, there are tons of men that want to meet me (no women ever reply, though, quite annoyingly). However, just as no women have responded to me, none have responded to my husband, either. I simply cannot understand. I think my husband is attractive (obviously) and frankly, cmpared to some of the offerings on there, I really think he's in the top quota, but then I am biased, of course.
Has anyone else found this, that men will reply but women do not? Does anyone have any advice for finding partners? Are there some better websites for polyamorous people? We were hoping to try a free site untill we get the hang of things, but it looks like we will have to pay, but I'll be super annoyed if we use a pay site and STILL there are no women prepared to be polite.
We are in the UK, northern, South Yorkshire BTW.
I apologise if this is in the wrong section.
Thankyou.