ok so here is the situation. We have been with our gf (my husband and I) for 3 months. I'm still not 100% sure I am comfortable with them having sex without me, however I said it was ok. So then he wants to go on a overnight trip with her. I said I want to go on a overnight trip with her before he does. For the simple fact that me and he have not even had sex alone together. So I think it is only fair that I get that "alone" time first with her. I mean they get "alone" time at least once a week. what do u think? well he agreed and we were suppposed to go today but somethings came up, so we are going next week. YAY we are both super excited!
So here is the next thing. he was supposed to go on a trip by himself on his bike. he was gonna go visit some family, but it was gonna be a nice long motorcycle ride for him. Well we ended up selling the motorcycle for personal reasons. So last night he was talking to me about still taking that trip but with just her. I said no. Why cant me and the kids go too? He asked you feel left out? DAMN RIGHT I feel left out. It's the middle of the summer, there is no reason why me and the kids can go too.
I am not ready for them to go out on a weekend trip alone (for now, maybe when we are alittle farther in the relationship it will be ok) and i know im probably insecure. But they havnt even gone on a overnight trip and he wants to plan a weekend trip? He was pretty pissed off/annoyed with me lst night. And it makes me feel so bad. I think thats partially what happened with the having "alone" time situation. I felt bad and so I gave in. But i am trying to get better with it.
So Am I wrong to say that I dont want them to go on a weekend trip alone? I just feel like why cant we all go? Why do I have to be left out and left stuck at home with the kids? I dont know. I'm worried its then gonna make her mad and i dont want to upset her. I dont know... Today I am feeling alot of tension between me and him, and I'm feeling sad. what do you think?
So here is the next thing. he was supposed to go on a trip by himself on his bike. he was gonna go visit some family, but it was gonna be a nice long motorcycle ride for him. Well we ended up selling the motorcycle for personal reasons. So last night he was talking to me about still taking that trip but with just her. I said no. Why cant me and the kids go too? He asked you feel left out? DAMN RIGHT I feel left out. It's the middle of the summer, there is no reason why me and the kids can go too.
I am not ready for them to go out on a weekend trip alone (for now, maybe when we are alittle farther in the relationship it will be ok) and i know im probably insecure. But they havnt even gone on a overnight trip and he wants to plan a weekend trip? He was pretty pissed off/annoyed with me lst night. And it makes me feel so bad. I think thats partially what happened with the having "alone" time situation. I felt bad and so I gave in. But i am trying to get better with it.
So Am I wrong to say that I dont want them to go on a weekend trip alone? I just feel like why cant we all go? Why do I have to be left out and left stuck at home with the kids? I dont know. I'm worried its then gonna make her mad and i dont want to upset her. I dont know... Today I am feeling alot of tension between me and him, and I'm feeling sad. what do you think?