Thread: Metamour love
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Old 09-06-2010, 07:45 AM
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What does actually caring for the health and relationship of my metamours do for me? It normalizes my own relationship. I don't have doubts about "my place" in her life. I don't feel jealous or greedy or have a need to be the center of attention when we are all together. I worry about the positive health of their relationship with my partner rather than the relationship they have with my partner.

It honestly is what I consider to be the magic bullet for the type of poly relationship we have and desire; one where we can all come together as friends and as a tribe and be completely at ease with the fluidity of affection and attention. You don't build a big tribe like that quickly but the one you do build like that has strength and stability

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