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Old 10-12-2011, 06:34 PM
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Originally Posted by SunshineAngel View Post
I asked S today how "this" relationship was in his eyes....was it a "you and her", a "her and I" and a "you and I" type relationship? His reply was that's what it's looking like. That was not what i expected.
What else could it be? There are three individuals here. You and S. are not one unit, with Sunshine as a part that snaps into place. You are three people with individual wants and needs, and there are three relationships to take care of beside the one you all have together.

I also don't see why S. needs to report back to you about his conversations with Sunshine. You know they talk every day, why must you be filled on on the content? I think you def need to lighten up.
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