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Old 09-07-2014, 01:55 AM
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I think fairness is important.

Re: M/F and couples events ... sometimes the "M" would be me, sometimes the "M" would be the legal/lawful husband. The lady in our family tries to maintain as much fairness as she can, which is good enough for me.

As for kids, we don't have any. But the opening statement still applies. Fairness is important. You try to make it up to the partner who babysat for you, if and however possible.

Probably the most important thing is for all three/four adults to sit down and figure out a way to work things out so that everyone feels okay about it.
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