Maybe I'll refer to her as "Lovely"
Learned how to use PowerPoint for my computer class this week.
...she asked me if I'm seeing anyone else. I told her I see dead people, and then she wanted a serious answer. So I told her we should save that conversation for when we're face-to-face, instead of over the phone. Not because I'm avoiding anything, but because I'd rather talk about that stuff in person! Then the conversation trailed off and she sent me a text amounting to the death of our 1-day romance...
Oh and I had a window open in the Relationships board, typing up a question "Ladies - if you were monogamous, how would you want a poly guy to reveal his cards?", anticipating the conversation. But then BAM! shattered D:
Um, no you don't. Stand up for yourself!I have to sit around the house all day replaying the same video games over and over and staring at the internet.
nycindie said:Personally, I wouldn't have avoided the answer as you did, but would've had a good one prepared
Not at the moment, but that’s on its way to changing and I didn’t want to let her assume that by “no I’m not seeing anyone” I meant “yes I’m available for monogamy” (she was throwing some serious mono vibes) I probably should have said “no” and then saved the disclaimer for in-person conversation, but I don’t think that would have changed the end result.Are you in a relationship right now?