Blonde7915
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I need a bit of advice and the like, but first I guess you will need some back ground.
Recently my husband and I (together 13 years, open/poly for 6) spent a week with his girlfriend (who i'll call R) and her husband (who I'll call D). We moved away for work a few years ago but my husband and R have maintained a long distance relationship and each time we go home he catches up with her. The week together was great, I am great friends with R and and although we look very different we are very similar in other ways and it is easy to see why my husband is attracted to both of us. At times R and I have played together both with and without my husband. D and I have played together in the past but I just don't have a strong connection to him like my husband and R have with each other. D works in a job were he is away on business a lot (he is usually away for 2 weeks and home for 2 weeks). This has meant that most of the time when we or just my husband has met up with R, D is away for work. This time however he was home the whole week.
At times things were great but at other time D made comments that were hard to work out, things like when my husband paid D a compliment D would say "well you have to say that, you are fucking my wife" or he would make comments about who fucks his wife better. D also makes a lot more money than my husband and he would bring this up too, like making comments how he is the one who could provide for two women. All these comments started to make both me and husband feel a bit uncomfortable around him. After the week was over my husband also told me R has not told D that she loves my husband (my husband told me he was going to say it to R before he did).
So what advice I need is how to do handle handle these comments from D in the future.
Recently my husband and I (together 13 years, open/poly for 6) spent a week with his girlfriend (who i'll call R) and her husband (who I'll call D). We moved away for work a few years ago but my husband and R have maintained a long distance relationship and each time we go home he catches up with her. The week together was great, I am great friends with R and and although we look very different we are very similar in other ways and it is easy to see why my husband is attracted to both of us. At times R and I have played together both with and without my husband. D and I have played together in the past but I just don't have a strong connection to him like my husband and R have with each other. D works in a job were he is away on business a lot (he is usually away for 2 weeks and home for 2 weeks). This has meant that most of the time when we or just my husband has met up with R, D is away for work. This time however he was home the whole week.
At times things were great but at other time D made comments that were hard to work out, things like when my husband paid D a compliment D would say "well you have to say that, you are fucking my wife" or he would make comments about who fucks his wife better. D also makes a lot more money than my husband and he would bring this up too, like making comments how he is the one who could provide for two women. All these comments started to make both me and husband feel a bit uncomfortable around him. After the week was over my husband also told me R has not told D that she loves my husband (my husband told me he was going to say it to R before he did).
So what advice I need is how to do handle handle these comments from D in the future.