Hey there! Aussie guy, and I'm here because I'm in a great relationship with my gf of nearly four years and I'm also attracted to another girl at work. I don't want to do the whole sneaking around behind my gf's back because I love her and value our relationship way too much for that, and I also don't think that I should be forced to not explore a possible relationship with the other girl. But at the moment, it's just me and my gf.