Derbylicious
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No objections from me .
No objections from me .
I'm going to plan the pants off some date nights
Pants off date nights? Those are good times!
Yes, I am totally reading what I want to see.
You want to see me with pants off?
I'm so greatful to have such wonderful people in my life.
Yes, I thought of that. Damn! Right at the beginning of summer too!And I have a new jacket to wear
Yes, I thought of that. Damn! Right at the beginning of summer too!
You guys have summer..
*looks up bus schedule to go to the island* haha
The thing is that as much as this isn't my relationship and I shouldn't care I can't help but have hurt feelings on his behalf. If I was all stuck in bed and hurting I would want to be made much of by both of my loves. I get that people have lives outside of their relationships but after a couple of days you would think that you could find at least a few minutes for a visit. Am I expecting too much?
Maybe not expecting too much, but expecting what you would want for yourself? Is this also what hubby wants, or is he happy with the support she is giving him?
So I'm trying really really hard to stay out of things between my husband and his girlfriend. As I've already written my husband broke his ankle and had surgery on it over the weekend. His girlfriend hasn't shown up at all to see how he is or to see if there's anything she can do for him. I know that it's none of my business and that there are many love languages but in my world if someone is sick or hurt and you care about them you're there for them and doing your best to help them to feel better. . . . Am I expecting too much?
I'm right there with you derby. Maybe this is all she is capable of. Maybe her idea of "girlfriend" is different than yours. Maybe your husbands idea of "girlfriend" is also. There are all kinds of relationships and althought it might be frustrating to understand, it just is.
I would wonder what is behind it for you? Do you need a break? Would you like her to take a share in responsibilities? It might be that changing your view on her and what they have, what expectations you have as a result, will help you be less frustrated and hurt on his behalf.