xtrememousey
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differences in major areas like libido, schedule and temperment?
wife#2 is a planner, hubby and i are not. she has a higher libido than i do and they have 3x more naked time than he and i do. he and i have 2 kids together and we take our time when we can but that's not always possible because she has asked for some time 6-8 hours before i know if i'm going to be able to have a few moments (depending on kids).
for example.....we had set up some time on saturday and she wanted him one weekend night, so no problem right? wrong.....our 7 month old was up until 6:30a sunday morning and i ended up passing out with the baby because i had been up for 20 hours or so straightso he waited for me and it never happened but he didn't go to her either.....fast forward to sunday and she has to work monday morning and be up at 5:30a and he was just going to go wake her up but lo and behold i had 2 sleeping boys at 2:30a and we had a few minutes and could have had some time.....
do these things just work themselves out?
wife#2 is a planner, hubby and i are not. she has a higher libido than i do and they have 3x more naked time than he and i do. he and i have 2 kids together and we take our time when we can but that's not always possible because she has asked for some time 6-8 hours before i know if i'm going to be able to have a few moments (depending on kids).
for example.....we had set up some time on saturday and she wanted him one weekend night, so no problem right? wrong.....our 7 month old was up until 6:30a sunday morning and i ended up passing out with the baby because i had been up for 20 hours or so straightso he waited for me and it never happened but he didn't go to her either.....fast forward to sunday and she has to work monday morning and be up at 5:30a and he was just going to go wake her up but lo and behold i had 2 sleeping boys at 2:30a and we had a few minutes and could have had some time.....
do these things just work themselves out?