IrisAwakened
New member
Having been poly for the better part of a year, I am realizing some long term goals of mine. I want to work toward having a poly family, a multi-adult household. I mean, what is the future goal for most relationships that are deeply loving? I would think cohabitation would be a common thread, but maybe that is my social conditioning speaking. Either way, having my partners living with me really appeals to me. I would love for us all to live together and raise children together.
The issue is that I brought this up hypothetically to my husband last week and he thought it sounded reasonable. But when I talked about it last night he had no remembrance of that other talk and is pretty much against the whole idea. There are a lot of factors to consider on our side, like that he doesn't have one partner yet since becoming open to poly. I don't need to push this issue a ton, because it is still crazy early to consider it, but I guess I just want to know that it is a future possibility for my relationships.
Do any of you cohabitate with your poly partners and your primary together? Does anyone have children with both partners? (That sounds messy but I feel it would be a great bonding for the poly family. And I bet it happens)
The issue is that I brought this up hypothetically to my husband last week and he thought it sounded reasonable. But when I talked about it last night he had no remembrance of that other talk and is pretty much against the whole idea. There are a lot of factors to consider on our side, like that he doesn't have one partner yet since becoming open to poly. I don't need to push this issue a ton, because it is still crazy early to consider it, but I guess I just want to know that it is a future possibility for my relationships.
Do any of you cohabitate with your poly partners and your primary together? Does anyone have children with both partners? (That sounds messy but I feel it would be a great bonding for the poly family. And I bet it happens)