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Old 06-27-2010, 04:39 AM
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I don't know what the appropriate point is to consider something a success story, but I was monogamously married for over 7 years (and together for a total of 13 years) before we opened things up, and I've now been with my boyfriend for over 6 months and everyone is doing just fine.

Honestly, the transition has been pretty smooth. I think we're still in a period of adjustment, which I sometimes I have to remind myself of, because I feel so incredibly comfortable with both the men in my life. But everyone is committed to making it work, and while I won't say there have no been no minor bumps along the way in my marriage, it's nothing compared to what we were going through when we were trying to make monogamy work. The whole process, really, has been a positive experience rather than a trying one.
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