Well in my previous post I outlined my new poly relationship. My husband (T), lover (B), lover's wife (C) & I did spend the weekend at a "lifestyle" nudist resort. Overall we had a blast & Fri T & C participated in "soft play." They fell asleep in one bed while lover & I took to the other. Spending the entire night together has now happened twice between B & I. It's difficult for that to happen as we both love our spouses & wish to be respectful.
So B is a total flirt, a swinger & has an extremely high sex drive. This is really why we hit it off so well. However, it bothered me to watch him flirting with everyone in the room at a dance party. I know how he is & none of this has been a secret. It is actually part of why I find him so attractive. I'm very much the same way. I'm not at all jealous of T & the closeness he feels to C. Actually B & I were thrilled that they were spending time together.
All 4 of us ended up in the same bed in a play room Sat night. We were fully with our spouses as far as penetration but T & B were very attentive to us ladies together to make sure we were satisfied. Overall it was a jumble of touching, feeling & oral with an audience that left everyone feeling wonderful.
B & I had private time after our spouses went to bed (in separate beds this time.) We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves but spent the intimate act of sleeping in the arms of our spouses.
I'm analyzing my feelings at this point. Is it odd that I'm not jealous of my spouse or his but I'm jealous of attention that he gives to others outside of myself or his wife? I guess ultimately I'm wondering how others have handled similar situations & seeking reassurance.
So B is a total flirt, a swinger & has an extremely high sex drive. This is really why we hit it off so well. However, it bothered me to watch him flirting with everyone in the room at a dance party. I know how he is & none of this has been a secret. It is actually part of why I find him so attractive. I'm very much the same way. I'm not at all jealous of T & the closeness he feels to C. Actually B & I were thrilled that they were spending time together.
All 4 of us ended up in the same bed in a play room Sat night. We were fully with our spouses as far as penetration but T & B were very attentive to us ladies together to make sure we were satisfied. Overall it was a jumble of touching, feeling & oral with an audience that left everyone feeling wonderful.
B & I had private time after our spouses went to bed (in separate beds this time.) We thoroughly enjoyed ourselves but spent the intimate act of sleeping in the arms of our spouses.
I'm analyzing my feelings at this point. Is it odd that I'm not jealous of my spouse or his but I'm jealous of attention that he gives to others outside of myself or his wife? I guess ultimately I'm wondering how others have handled similar situations & seeking reassurance.