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Old 04-10-2013, 02:06 PM
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Originally Posted by KerrBear View Post
So I had to call my husband and he said that he did say that because he was mad that my bf took me out to dinner. He said he didn't want him to spend a single dime on me and that he was my sugar daddy.
"Sugar daddy?" Dear lord, what an antiquated notion!

It sounds like your husband feels he owns you. I would talk with him about that and tell him to nip that attitude in the bud right quick. Even if you were totally monogamous, you're not his property. Plus, he's really being a bit of a douche, isn't he? Saying one thing, and then another - that's fucked up.
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