LovingRadiance
Active member
Thinking about the other thread about std's:
Maca and I were discussing and some thoughts seemed worthy of sharing.
Relationships require some hoop jumping.
If someone is unwilling to navigate the hoops to accomplish std testing, including cost, honest discussion of risk, finding a dr, waiting for sex until resukts are obtained and shared etc.
It stands to reason they won't have the stamina or ability to withstand the myriad complications that arise in trying to bavigate schedules, emotions, responsibilities etc in a polyfamily dynamic such as ours.
I see it as a simple "pre-test" of ability and willingness to navigate complications. If they can't do that, they are better off not wasting their time with me.
Maca and I were discussing and some thoughts seemed worthy of sharing.
Relationships require some hoop jumping.
If someone is unwilling to navigate the hoops to accomplish std testing, including cost, honest discussion of risk, finding a dr, waiting for sex until resukts are obtained and shared etc.
It stands to reason they won't have the stamina or ability to withstand the myriad complications that arise in trying to bavigate schedules, emotions, responsibilities etc in a polyfamily dynamic such as ours.
I see it as a simple "pre-test" of ability and willingness to navigate complications. If they can't do that, they are better off not wasting their time with me.