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Old 06-11-2018, 09:24 PM
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Originally Posted by UnicornHunted View Post
How important is it, to you personally, to believe that your partner holds the space of "best, first, and most" for you?
I don't offer "best, first, and most" ranking to either of my partners (or anyone else in my family), so I don't expect my partners to hold a space like that for me.

As long as they hold up their respective ends of the co-parenting sticks (to use Galagirl's metaphor), it doesn't matter where I fall in a ranking of their relationships. I'm confident they won't shirk parenting duties, or otherwise cause drama (partner selection). I'm okay if the nature of a relationship changes over time.

SlowPoly hinge in an open V living between two homes

Mitch life partner co-parent former LDR
Woof life partner co-parent former spouse

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