Thank you, as of right now they are trying to make me reconsider my decision, and talk it out I just see the same pattern and I honestly just see her holding on to this relationship because she doesn't want to lose him. When is enough when she says again she isn't comfortable with me and him romantically alone again, and she can its not like to always be stern about situations but I won't put my foot down here. I'm in my house feeling like I have to watch everything I do. I will still consider other poly options in the future for now I will see what happens but my ultimate decision is being and just enjoying me for now. Thanks for all the love and support I will tell you all how the conversation later goes.