zappafreak
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Wife has a new boyfriend and she is lost in this guy. It's difficult because he is so right for her. I'm happy for her. They have a wonderful time together. She is so happy with him...but he is (was) single and this is his first foray into the poly world. I have real concerns about her getting so swept up in him.
They have been seeing each other for about a month now. They see each other a lot. I don't like controlling their relationship, but I honestly think she is doing herself, and us, a disservice by letting herself get so wrapped up in him. I have talked with her about this several times and she doesn't seem to think it is an issue....she says "let's just see what happens".
Am I wrong for wanting to try and restrict the amount of time they spend together? I am feeling pretty conflicted on this.
They have been seeing each other for about a month now. They see each other a lot. I don't like controlling their relationship, but I honestly think she is doing herself, and us, a disservice by letting herself get so wrapped up in him. I have talked with her about this several times and she doesn't seem to think it is an issue....she says "let's just see what happens".
Am I wrong for wanting to try and restrict the amount of time they spend together? I am feeling pretty conflicted on this.