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Old 04-19-2014, 01:10 PM
WhatHappened WhatHappened is offline
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Your thoughts on this are well spoken.

Do you have a link to the discussion on ethics?

I'm in agreement that I see exceptions, but what eventually stood out to me is that they are exactly that...exceptions. I asked BF about the poly couples/families/groups he knows in real life...who aren't posting on forums looking for help. He first told me they're all happy. As we dug into details, I found that in truth, he only knows two others in poly marriages, and, on more thought, added, and actually, one of them is having trouble.

My personal belief is that his own marriage is nowhere near so happy, perfect, and rock solid as he tells me it is. The fact he seems to have entered a long depression and be quite unhappy with his life only adds to that impression.
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