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Old 04-02-2011, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted by Anneintherain View Post
I don't know how big of a city you are in, or what poly support might be out there but when I first started, meeting poly and poly friendly people was VERY helpful..................

take it slow and let him know you want him to feel as loved as you want to be yourself. From past experience I know if one person isn't ready, things can backfire in a very bad way if things progress too hastily.
Wise words spoken here. Go at the pace of the one who is struggling the most and then some. There is nothing like being told by someone that used to be struggling that you should get going on a date because its been way too long that you have spent time with them. It can eventually be like that, when trust builds and things normalize more and more.
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