MonoVCPHG
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happy b-day to me
Redpepper is a person who celebrates birthdays, housewarmings and family stuff. I am not normally that big on all of that. She also embraces every opportunity to share time with friends. As most of you know, I am more withdrawn in that area. However, last night Redpepper and her husband were free for the night and wanted to do something with me to celebrate my birthday.
I decided it would be nice to get all of us together and invite some friends from both our worlds to enjoy a Halloween festival and dancing.
By both our worlds, I mean a friendship with a traditional monogamous couple Redpepper and I have developed in my neighbourhood and our other friends from the poly world. This was a time for meeting and bridging a few gaps.
So we all met up and had a great time at the festival and enjoyed some screams and laughs. We then headed to town to the local gay/queer bar that is relaxed and a fun place to dance. We first went for a little pizza where a middle-aged guy was severely drunk and a confrontation was brewing between him and some young guys. Redpepper rushed in to the rescue, pulled the drunken guy away and then we spent five minutes looking for a bench that he could sleep on. This is in her nature, taking care of people, for no other reason than that they are people.
We then hit the dance floor and had a great time. Our monogamous friends have met her husband before, but this was the first time that they had met her other lover (aka, the Fancy LOL!) They had never been in a gay bar either, especially on a kink night! They really enjoyed themselves. We all had a great time dancing and when the night was over, we spent the night/day at my place.
It had been too long since all the people in her life had come together to bond and simply have fun. I love these moments, as they help grow the relationships between her lovers and friends.
We really do have it good, regardless of everything that needs to be done for us to be healthy. We love being together and I am thankful for every second I have with her.
Redpepper is a person who celebrates birthdays, housewarmings and family stuff. I am not normally that big on all of that. She also embraces every opportunity to share time with friends. As most of you know, I am more withdrawn in that area. However, last night Redpepper and her husband were free for the night and wanted to do something with me to celebrate my birthday.
I decided it would be nice to get all of us together and invite some friends from both our worlds to enjoy a Halloween festival and dancing.
By both our worlds, I mean a friendship with a traditional monogamous couple Redpepper and I have developed in my neighbourhood and our other friends from the poly world. This was a time for meeting and bridging a few gaps.
So we all met up and had a great time at the festival and enjoyed some screams and laughs. We then headed to town to the local gay/queer bar that is relaxed and a fun place to dance. We first went for a little pizza where a middle-aged guy was severely drunk and a confrontation was brewing between him and some young guys. Redpepper rushed in to the rescue, pulled the drunken guy away and then we spent five minutes looking for a bench that he could sleep on. This is in her nature, taking care of people, for no other reason than that they are people.
We then hit the dance floor and had a great time. Our monogamous friends have met her husband before, but this was the first time that they had met her other lover (aka, the Fancy LOL!) They had never been in a gay bar either, especially on a kink night! They really enjoyed themselves. We all had a great time dancing and when the night was over, we spent the night/day at my place.
It had been too long since all the people in her life had come together to bond and simply have fun. I love these moments, as they help grow the relationships between her lovers and friends.
We really do have it good, regardless of everything that needs to be done for us to be healthy. We love being together and I am thankful for every second I have with her.
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