Kerbear321
New member
So, I'm currently in a loving and great relationship. A few months ago, I got out of a relationship with my partner of 7 years. He didn't want a baby or marriage and I did. Now, I'm with someone who wants these things.
What's my problem, you ask? Well, I'm in love with them both. Me and my ex still talk as if we'd never broken up (He knows about my current partner) and my relationship with my partner is lovely. My ex admits that he's slightly jealous but he's getting over it and my current partner knows I still love my ex. I love them for the men they are. They both make me happy in various ways.
I don't know what to do. I'm coming to terms with my polyandrous nature and it frightens me. It frightens me because I'm afraid of scaring my current partner off but, I am also afraid of living a lie. I don't know what I should do...
Can someone give me insight? Has this ever happened to anyone?
What's my problem, you ask? Well, I'm in love with them both. Me and my ex still talk as if we'd never broken up (He knows about my current partner) and my relationship with my partner is lovely. My ex admits that he's slightly jealous but he's getting over it and my current partner knows I still love my ex. I love them for the men they are. They both make me happy in various ways.
I don't know what to do. I'm coming to terms with my polyandrous nature and it frightens me. It frightens me because I'm afraid of scaring my current partner off but, I am also afraid of living a lie. I don't know what I should do...
Can someone give me insight? Has this ever happened to anyone?