ray
New member
I'm new around here, although I've been reading for awhile. I recently began a poly relationship which also happens to be my first relationship in general. Things are going pretty well, I'd say but I thought of something I'd like to ask. I'm dating a guy we'll call O and he is recently married to a woman we'll call A. I frequently hang out with both of them and A and I are working on a friendship. Something we're currently working on figuring out is the rules of engagement when we're all together. Namely, what's ok for O and I. In the next week or so, A and I will likely sit down and discuss the matter but in the meantime I'm curious to hear how others have set this up or talked about it. Like do you hang out with your SO's SO and how affectionate can you all be? Does it ever turn into triad? I'm sure that people have lots of stories and experiences and I'm curious to hear about it.
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