Holy full-circle-city, Batman!
At least you finally came around after your daughter made her feelings known.
Have a good future.
Always on time, BoringGuy. Always on time. I couldn't ignore her feelings. I'm soft when it comes to the kid. Thanks.
Holy full-circle-city, Batman!
At least you finally came around after your daughter made her feelings known.
Have a good future.
It takes a village!
It probably will be easier working as a team than going it alone. I don't know. I'm used to being at odds with my Mrs. Working with her isn't in my blood. That's going to take work like a job. I need benefits or something out of the deal if I have to work with both of them.
To me? If it is not a "joyful yes" because....
"no" is not a "joyful yes"
a "maybe" is not a "joyful yes"
an "I'm not sure if it is maybe" is not a "joyful yes."
It is a NO vote. Anything "less than" joyful yes is not joyful yes.
Could not RUSH into life changing decisions after just getting the kerfuffle settled back down.
Could investigate the law further before the move -- Snowflake is NOT a step parent (legally) because she is not married to your wife. You are. What's the legal standing on that? What are the rights then?
It's a valid concern given recent history. Are you going to be held to something against your will if they apply without you? Can it be accepted?
Does that affect your decision to move there if you would now be under this other country's laws?
GG
Matt, i don't have the chance to read both of your long posts right now, but after what you just went through? I don't recommend doing that. I didn't read gala girl'l whole post either, but i read the first part & i probably agree with the whole thing.
You know what you need to do? Read every single post and thread you and your wife wrote on here. Don't even read what other people wrote; just the two of you. Then use that to not make the same mistakes over and over.
I have to go now. The train just got to the last stop.
Well, as far as this document goes, I am not sure specifically what you are asking. The more important issue to me would be that if you are that wounded and still have this many issues with trust, that is what I think that should be the major focus. I have seen other trust situations, while not as complex as yours, be enough to make any other work a moot point. At some point, it would seem to me to be to your advantage to decide whether or not you feel can trust your wife again. I know from previous experience that living in a situation where you can't let go and trust is a miserable existence. If you do feel that you can learn to trust her, then my humble opinion is to get through it and get to it. I know there is pain, and I understand from what I have read there is a willingness on both sides to give and work on things, so I would just think that letting go and believing would benefit you both. If you can't or don't feel you can, then what are you actually working toward?
I know that you both seem like good people that are trying to do the best you can, and I think you deserve to be happy.
"Hypothetically speaking, what if we were to do that, what would you say?"