Indygirl78
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Kevin, yes, that is pretty much the sum of things in a nutshell. I don't expect anything to change as far as MW's attitude, and the nature of who she is, to change anytime in the near future. But I think at the very least I can put the ideas out there and give her time to think about them.
Concerning the trip we are planning, I am fully aware that we will probably go on it as friends. We have taken a number of trips together over the years and things have been very enjoyable just enjoying each other's company. We have always been friends and even if things don't work out I feel confident that we will continue to be so. When we married our spouses we knew they had been friends for a very long time and I like to think that she respects the bond our husbands have as much as I do.
It seems slow and difficult will be the nature of my journey. Honestly, even though it will be, I feel that it is worth it no matter what. I love BF very much and if things don't work out the way I hope, I still feel like I need him in my life. He was a close friend of mine before he was my lover and I never want to lose that friendship.
Thanks for all the advice and support guys! It has helped me take a step back and get a more objective look at the situation.
Concerning the trip we are planning, I am fully aware that we will probably go on it as friends. We have taken a number of trips together over the years and things have been very enjoyable just enjoying each other's company. We have always been friends and even if things don't work out I feel confident that we will continue to be so. When we married our spouses we knew they had been friends for a very long time and I like to think that she respects the bond our husbands have as much as I do.
It seems slow and difficult will be the nature of my journey. Honestly, even though it will be, I feel that it is worth it no matter what. I love BF very much and if things don't work out the way I hope, I still feel like I need him in my life. He was a close friend of mine before he was my lover and I never want to lose that friendship.
Thanks for all the advice and support guys! It has helped me take a step back and get a more objective look at the situation.