Breathesgirl
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Not looking is how I found both of my loves.
Jamie,
I have been stuck in the quagmire of the swinger scene for the last year with my girlfriend who is an ex-swinger. The relationships that have I formed within the scene have helped me better understand myself and realize that I have no business there. I have been trying to tune into the polyamoury scene as that is my true orientation but have found there are very few resources on the interenet for dating and organizations. I personally think that AFF, Ashleigh Madison, sexsearch.com, are a waste of time as the ratio of men to women is obscene.
I am sorry that I cannot offer any suggestions as to polyam dating sites, If you find anthing good that is regional, please let me know.
Regards,
Philip
I always prefer when people have their own username as it gets very confusing after awhile. This forum is like a unicorn. I kind of see it much like some poly relationships, they start with two and then they break into three, into a triad with a unicorn and the original couple ends up being far more independent that they were in a monogamous couple. Not only that one person falls in love with the other more and then a complication ensues that leads to a vee with that one person participating more with the new person. This forum tends to turn from unicorn to an arm of a vee.I'm thinking I should re-register under a name unique to me and let this username fall by the wayside. Thoughts?
Ever watch the movie "The Secret"? It's all about putting your thoughts into the universe. Just sayin.
Really...seems like people are belittling the idea. I am bi and fully committed so if my BF and I break up I'm a unicorn?
We caught one!Sorry you read that wrong. A unicorn is the mythical 3rd who will commit to a couple, is bisexual and equally interested in both. Oh and is single.
Go and find your local community. Finding friends first seems to mean finding sustainability. You seem to be looking for that so why not take a different approach and find like minded people. What I have noticed in doing this is that I feel like belong and that is invaluable. Anything over and above for those in my community is icing on the cake. They have a lot of icingThe husband and I recently dabbled in a poly relationship and really liked it. Things didn't work out for our third (she was young and not interested in "settling down").
So I just gotta ask:
How do you meet people to join your twosome?
We've tried online dating sites before, but not sure which are the best ones to use. Had some luck, but nothing worked out in the long run. Not sure how to meet people otherwise.
Any words of advice or helpful suggestions.
Thanks for you time!!!!
I remain convicted that the best way to meet that "special someone" or "someones" is to simply be friendly every time you encounter people.
If you say hello, good morning, good evening etc to everyone you meet, you will raise the chances of having a friendly conversation and the more of those you have, the higher your chances of meeting someone.