Mags, V's are just as poly as triads, OPP or not, and they're polyamorous if they identify as such. It's not really for you to paste labels on someone else.Just trying to get this straight. You don't sound polyamorous, just polygynous.
Mags, V's are just as poly as triads, OPP or not, and they're polyamorous if they identify as such. It's not really for you to paste labels on someone else.Just trying to get this straight. You don't sound polyamorous, just polygynous.
Oh, so you're interested in a polyfidelitous V. You get 2 women, and the women only get you. One penis policy. Your wife doesn't want a gf, she just wants a "sister wife?" You want a monogamous lover then, who would be happy sharing you with your wife, but would not want, or be allowed to have another lover of her own? Your wife doesn't want another sex partner, male or female.
Just trying to get this straight. You don't sound polyamorous, just polygynous.
Just being technical. There is no "better than you" about it from this end.
A V is one person with 2 lovers, where those 2 lovers do not have sex. The 2 lovers (who don't have sex with each other) are called metamours. Or in this case, perhaps sister wives.
A triad, technically, is 3 people in love and all having sex, either in 3ways or one on one. All 3 people are lovers or paramours or whatever you want to call them.
Please get your panties unbunched, people.
and talks of poly fi along with that (I didn't read the whole thread though). No biggy, but it is confusing... I can understand where Mags got confused. I was.We have been talking about and passively looking for a second female for seven years, but only recently have we began to actively pursue the lifestyle and relationship style we have wanted.