WalksThroughFire35
New member
Anyone have a fairly exhaustive list of rules and sexual behaviors for negotiating non monogamous relationships?
Hi Firewalker
Here's our "rule"..........
"Rules" are a tinfoil shelter that offer the weak and thoughtless a false sense of security. Until the first good wind comes along.
We want nothing to do with "rules" !
Instead what we want & need are love, kindness, compassion & thoughtfulness (awareness).
If you can surround yourself with that and ACT in that manner a need for false shelters goes away.
I'd be careful of "rules". As we all know & say - rules are meant to be broken. And usually are because we can't have the foresight to see every possible combination of circumstances that life may throw at us.
But we CAN always choose our actions with the best intent for all concerned.
GS
I would agree except when it comes to rules about safe sex. I think those rules can be hard and fast and discussed ahead of time.
-Derby
I would agree except when it comes to rules about safe sex. I think those rules can be hard and fast and discussed ahead of time.
-Derby
That would be the nurse in me making it's appearance
Nurse derby... Mmm, there's a thought! Tee hee
I am new to all of this and I have to figure out what I am okay with and what I am not okay with.