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Old 06-23-2010, 06:29 PM
AutumnalTone AutumnalTone is offline
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Curly and I sleep apart. She decides who sleeps in her bed and I decide who sleeps in mine. I also much prefer to sleep alone, so these days its very rare that anybody would sleep in my bed besides me.

Beyond that, I'd never regard anyplace I couldn't invite somebody to sleep with me as my regular sleeping space. The moment any partner says "You can't have anybody besides me sleep here" is the moment I find somewhere else to sleep.

Obviously, other folks handle this sort of thing in a different fashion. I'll add to the chorus saying y'all need to sit down and work it out for your own situation.
When speaking of various forms of ain't poly if you're just fucking around.

While polyamory, open relationships, and swinging are all distinctly different approaches to non-monogamy, they are not mutually exlusive. Folks can, and some do, engage in more than one of them at a time--and it's all good.
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