Sorry this probably is the #1 post you see here.
Currently I am single so there is no monogamous relationship I need to worry about changing. Obviously growing up I am always assumed that I would be happy in a relationship with 1 other person. Well, after years of dating, two engagements and a divorce later I am starting to wonder if maybe monogamy isn't for me.
Perhaps someone here can answer my major concern. On those rare occasions when life has thrown another massive curveball will I be able to get the emotional support I need at that time in a poly relationship. Usually I like my space, for some guys I like I lot more space then they are comfortable giving. However, every so often, usually just for a bad night I need to be the center of someone's attention. Can you ask that of someone in a poly relationship?
Currently I am single so there is no monogamous relationship I need to worry about changing. Obviously growing up I am always assumed that I would be happy in a relationship with 1 other person. Well, after years of dating, two engagements and a divorce later I am starting to wonder if maybe monogamy isn't for me.
Perhaps someone here can answer my major concern. On those rare occasions when life has thrown another massive curveball will I be able to get the emotional support I need at that time in a poly relationship. Usually I like my space, for some guys I like I lot more space then they are comfortable giving. However, every so often, usually just for a bad night I need to be the center of someone's attention. Can you ask that of someone in a poly relationship?