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Old 08-08-2013, 02:41 AM
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Originally Posted by BoringGuy View Post
Perhaps the people who call themselves "swingers" are simply better at hiding their drama, for all i know. I am simply relaying my empirical observations of two different loosely-defined yet circumscribed sets of human subjects. This has very little to do with making statements about "how things are" or "how things should be", and is not based on the scientific method.
No scientific method here either! But after being involved with a person or couple for a certain period of time, the drama is going to come out - if there is going to be any. In theory, swingers don't have to deal with drama as much because they aren't as focused on the relationship part of things because they are mainly focused on the sexual pleasure of things. That could actually be why they don't seem to have as much drama. No one is hyper focused on the relationship part, so the relationships are able to evolve naturally and organically.
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