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Or-maybe she didn't tell him she was fine. Maybe that was HIS choice to say she was fine.
Good point. Chops (in the slightly more distant past) often misunderstood where I was coming from, or what I meant. Sometimes, this meant he relayed stuff incorrectly, and it led to more confusion until he, Xena, and I could all get together to iron it out face-to-face.
If she's not telling the two of you different things, MsC, he may have that problem, OR he may be trying to minimize conflict by purposely downplaying her feelings.
MsChristy, have all three of you sat down to talk about this? Even if you have to do it over Skype?
In other news, I'm cynical, feeling fat, and grouchy about work-related stuff today, which tends to turn off (or dim) my "try to see the best in people" switch. Oopsie. I shall go growl and snarl elsewhere... The drooling is free.
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