countryguy
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My wife and have been trying to start a V with a guy she has known for some time and she is wanting to go spend a couple of nights with him in a few weeks for the first time ever. We have discussed some of our own rules but never put anything in writing. So the other day I went and started to make a draft of them, well at least my concerns. Gave them to her to look over and I know some of them she would object totally to. And others she would just want modified a little. I never thought that a couple of them hurt her feelings, she also said that I was thinking way to much about it. I told her that this is just a draft about my concerns and just want her to make what changes to what I have and then we can come up with a final set. And all I was trying to do was protect our marriage.
So I wonder if I really screwed up trying to do the right thing. Or is there something else I have overlooked. And I told her I ahead of time that I was doing this draft of the rules and guidelines and hope to have it were she can review it this weekend.
So I wonder if I really screwed up trying to do the right thing. Or is there something else I have overlooked. And I told her I ahead of time that I was doing this draft of the rules and guidelines and hope to have it were she can review it this weekend.