JoyfullyAlive
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this is just a beautiful thread, and it gives me so much hope. Thank you. This is the direction I/we are headed in. Life is good.
Some situations that come to mind which I've just LOVED, which are only possible in poly dynamic:
- Walking with everybody hand in hand in hand in hand (wait, how many hands are there? )
- My girlfriend and my husband teasing me together about stuff I do in a relationship (like 'stealing' clothes )
- My girlfriend and husband spontaneously hugging each other when she left the last time; it just fills me with joy that they are already so comfortable with each other!)
I would say I'm living a dream, except I've never even dreamt of these kinds of things. Life certainly can bring you wonderfully unexpected things <3.
Breathes and I were at a game store yesterday morning. HE called Possibility to tell him that a game that Breathes and Possibility's male partner were talking about the previous night was at this particular store and the price. He then handed me the phone so I could talk to Possibility for a few minutes as well .
Sounds a little complicated but it isn't .
I confirmed attendance and she asked if Indigo and Mr. A were coming also.
Very cool!! Sounds great TP
Now I just have to not be nervous about the coworkers who will show up that DON'T know!
I'm lucky that most of the people invited I have, at worst, no interest in. There are no ill feelings about anyone.
I'm hoping that most people just won't care!
Loving the anticlimactic poly experiences myself. I exude a lack of care in anything but my own reality in life right now. Maybe that is why.