People think fair means equal, but it doesn't. Some things that are fair to everyone are not equal, and some things that are equal are not fair. Every case is different, depending on the people and their dynamic.
This. This is what I really wanted to say when I first posted on this thread but didn't really have the words for. Sometimes what's right for one person isn't for someone else and vice versa. So to make everything equal across all boards with the same standards/rules/guidelines applying to everyone would mean that whilst everyone was treated the same, it would not necessarily be fair as everyone's needs are different.