Tryingtofigureitout
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I haven't been sure where to go to talk about this kind of thing but stumbled across this website after searching for help. I have been sleeping with this guy for almost a year. In the last 6 months have become more serious, meetings of families, vacations, and being together non stop. When we started hooking up that was strictly all it was. We talked about having a threesome for months and about a month ago we had one. He brought a girl back to the house one night. We had a great time and it defiantly helped grow our relationship. It turns out she wants more with him than we expected and she has distanced herself from both of us.
He means the world to me and I honestly want to spend the rest of my life with him. But he is scared he is going to hurt me in the long run because he is constantly fighting urges of wanting another women sexually.
We are searching for help, we couldn't be more happier together. I am curious to see if poly could work for us. I am thinking I might have a hard time with him having another emotional relationship with another woman. I would be fine with the hooking up and the sex but I'm not sure how I would handle it the emotional part. Is this normal? Is this something we can work out together? Any advice for how to handle this situation or stories any of you have would help me tremendously.
He means the world to me and I honestly want to spend the rest of my life with him. But he is scared he is going to hurt me in the long run because he is constantly fighting urges of wanting another women sexually.
We are searching for help, we couldn't be more happier together. I am curious to see if poly could work for us. I am thinking I might have a hard time with him having another emotional relationship with another woman. I would be fine with the hooking up and the sex but I'm not sure how I would handle it the emotional part. Is this normal? Is this something we can work out together? Any advice for how to handle this situation or stories any of you have would help me tremendously.