I've been in open relationships for 9 years. My partner now is very popular these days, so I'm looking for info and perspective. How do I deal with his being wrapped up in what we call, the newness fever, when I don't seem to be attracting others to me? I want to feel new! I want to spend time with someone who can't seem to keep their hands off me. I am usually very forward, goin after what I want. But lately I want someone to want ME so much they land in my lap. How do I deal with seeing him jump into another's lap when I want him or someone in mine so badly. I know this isn't the usual greeting, but I'd imagine we all come here looking for answers.