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Old 11-04-2009, 05:50 AM
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I second LR's suggestion to read this thread:

But now, and for the last 5 years, it's just been us.
You've become interdependent. (Not co-dependent). Your identities, in a sense, have merged more than when you were first together. Now one of your "pair" is branching off. The energy is flowing outward, where it's been inward for a long time.

That can be scary. Your nest together, seemingly where you find your security and routine - your family, is shifting. You know, I've never had kids, but I suspect a first pregnancy can bring similar feelings. It doesn't sound like you're jealous, really. But that your world is changing and that's scary...
My heart is too big to fit into one person.
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