This all sounds pretty familiar. My bf, Butch, never initiates discussions about "Us." There is a lot of unspoken stuff. I tell myself it's ok and I try to work harder at accepting it. But reading this I realize that I am kinda going nuts over all the guessing and speculating and wondering.... We have never really defined our relationship. It's all "carpe deim" and "don't think too much" and "words are overrated."
My husband, Sundance, on the other hand, is very into words. We talk non-stop! Which was great, until he got a girlfriend and is chatting her up with all kinds of sweet words and delicious little stories. He says girls need to hear that stuff.
Oh yeah? I'm not hearing anything from my bf! I guess I'm just easy???
(Is that a good thing, or a bad thing???)